Sunday, September 27, 2009
9:06 AM
So here's the thing. I've learnt that no one else will truly understand the issues you're dealing with better than you and God himself. Some say thay do, but really they dont. It's really annoying the hear phrases like "I know how you feel", "Relax.Chill", "Dont worry. We all go through it." and the most annoying one would be "Everything happends for a reason."
I mean I know sometimes the other party has no idea how to deal with a stressed out being, BUT saying one of those phrases or worst! all of them, over and over again DOES NOT help the already upset one. SOMETIMES just being there and hearing the person vent is just enough. Give the person a hug,DONT PAT THE PERSON LIKE ONE WOULD PAT A DOG!, and just let them cry all their anger and whatnots out.
Yes. I know I'm not excatly explaining my point of this entry. I like it that way. All I can say is I DONT LIKE BEING PATTED, I need a hug and I think I'm too nice that it's starting to be a bad thing.